I am a connoisseur of life. I find it fascinating, absorbing and so so entertaining. Events and experiences around me seem to be part of the mysterious drama of life. There is a place for everything and a role for everyone. Naturally for me, even ordinary sights, people, events and encounters narrate a story of life. They make me reflective about the magic of life. Some of these experiences and reflections, I share them through my blogs.

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“Problem” vs “Perspective” base... Giving place Vs. Granting space! - Part 2

Author Raja Krishnamoorthy / Kitty - Feb 27, 2024

Hello! Welcome back to part II, of this topic...

What is the difference between “ Role” location and “Self-location”?

1.    Role is a relative location -  Self is an independent location

2.    Role is always connected to another role /entity (husband to wife, Reportee to Manager, Teacher to a student) – Self is a free, un-dependent existence

3.    Role carries norms, expectations, capabilities, and dependency...plusmore – Self has no such baggage. It is the same entity “spirit” in all the people

4.    Role is a dependent entity hence carries expectations, burdens, norms,capabilities etc – Self is  “primal intelligence”, “the un-defined causative factor” hence has no “weight to carry. It is naked, and light.

5.    Ideally inter dependent roles are also “counter point roles” eg :

Husband ( male) wife ( female); Teacher ( who knows) student ( One who has to learn & know). The nature of the Self is the same in all beings human.

Hence equalizing as “self”, being human is an independent,  deeper and wider choice simply because it is un-imaginably larger than the “limited/ dependent” role.

So, do you wish to be with the “limited” role in solving the problem or will you CHOOSE TO BE  the “un-limited self-awareness” in dealing with the other human?

Reflect further, and we shall come to the “How” question, in our part3 on this topic!

in awareness & Love

Raja Krishnamoorthy

27-2-2024, 11.30 pm

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